Before it first hears him.

“Nicodemus, one of their members who had come to him earlier, said to them, ‘Does our law condemn a man before it first hears him and finds out what he is doing?’” (JN 7: 50-51)

One of the most important strategies from our Programs are: “defend your spouse from accusations, even though the accusations come from you.” It is not easy, but it is so crucial for communication, for a good relationship. How often we think that our interpretation is the only right interpretation. What we prefer—to be right or to be happy together?

“Blessed are they who have kept the word with a generous heart and yield a harvest through perseverance.” (Verse before the Gospel)